To be truly happy, you need to recognize sorrow

-- Chia Weng Yan, future millionaire.

23 May 2006 Tue
Recently more people have said that i am a very rigid/bull-headed guy. So what makes a person being labeled as that? It seems that, young people these days are just a tad too judgemental these days.Since I am a person that like to analyze peoples thoughts, i asked around. What exactly did i said or do that makes me a bull headed guy.

After collectively listen to their thoughts and idea about me being a rigid hard stuborn ass, i came to two conclusions. The first conclusion was , i AM a rigid hard ass. The second conclusions are the people that said that i am a rigid hard ass are actually being hypocrites themselves.

Then i asked myself in what situation does 'my' rigid thinking pop up? What particular situation will trigger such a strong reaction that my friends are willing to call me a rigid hard stuborn bullheaded guy. SO i dig deeper into my thoughts. Then it suddenly struck me. All the time i have been with friends i have never labeled anyone as rigid/stuborn and yet i being labeld as one. When others stand by their opinion i did not call them rigid and stuborn. When i do i am being labeled as one ? Now wait a fucking minute ! SOmethings not right here.

So i thought of the exact situation when people thought of me as being stuborn/bull-headed. It seems this things only happen when ppl 'ASK' me questions. For example:

Situation 1
Person A: Hey, Chia do you like Britney Spears ?
Me: Uhmmm.. Not really. Why?
Person A: Yerrr.. Why not. She is beautiful, talented and bla bla bla ?
Me: Nop... i just dont like her.
Person A: What a rigid fuck up person
Me: Oh yeah.. fuck you too

Situation 2
Person B: Chia, do you eat beef?
Me: No.
Person B: What the fuck ? Beef also dont eat ? You sohai is it ?
Me: What the fuck ? Beef also you eat ? You sohai is it?
Person B: I pity being you ?
Me: Well i sympathize being you too... *snickers

Well here is what i think of the entire situation. When you asked a question and then you do not like the answer given, you are NOT FUCKING ENTITLED to say that he/she is rigid/bullheaded. Why? I tell you why.. cause you are forcing someone to think that he/she is wrong in her opinion and your opinion is right. Isnt that makes the guy or girl that asked the questions and dismiss all answers other than their own a rigid/stuborn ass. Super hypocrites. SO let just say.. that i do oblige to your questions, does that makes me a less rigid/stuborn ass? No.. cause i wont oblige.. I wont be whipped into sayin 'yes' when deep down i know that its a definite 'no' for me. Everyone is entitled to their opinions. Heck if you say that i am the best looking guy you ever met and i personally dont think so, i still wont argue with you right? hahahahhahah..

Anyway, I always think of such people as hypocrites. What if i dont have the same opinion as you are on a certain issue. Does that mean i am an intolerable hard ass rigid stuborn guy? Hey i am entitled to my own opinion right? You dont see me saying telling off people that they are rigid/stuborn cause they did not listen/acknowledge my opinion, do you? I dont ask a fucking question and then when you dont answer properly, blooody penalize you for being stuborn , do I? Do i? Huh .. *waving middle finger at air....

The way i look at it, if i asked a question its only right to listen to what others have to say. Even if their opinion contradict with your own, you are only entitle to argue with facts and thoughts. However at the end of the day you are not ENTITLED to penalize them for not having the same opinion as yourself. You cant tell people they are rigid/stuborn ass. You just cant. If everybody were to have the same opinion of the same thing as everybody else the world would be fucking boring. I can imagine where everybody in the world with a conversation like this :-

Situation 1
Person A: Hey, Chia do you like Britney Spears ?
Me: Yea She is beautiful, talented and bla bla bla...
Person A: Great me too
Me: Yeah...
Person A: uhuh...
Me: ......
*cricket sound

Situation 2
Person B: Chia, do you eat beef?
Me: Yes do you eat beef too?
Person B: Yea,
Me: Yea me too
Person B: Yea..... Its damn good
Me: Yea...
*cricket sound

Unless the idea/thoughts that you convery might hurt humans physically then i guess you are entitled to have watever opinion you like. If you think dog fucking a rabbit is hot then yes, though its weird , you are still entitled to have your opinion. Just as long you dont force a guy to fuck the dog * which violates the hurting human physically code * while the dog fuck the rabbit. Sigh.. I am going to label the next person that call me rigid/stuborn a hypocrite.. just because.. its my OWN opinion..

08 May 2006 Mon
2nd day at Singapore. Geez i cant even remember what time i woke up. Had a major flu outbreak in Singap*re. Damn the country. Their air is too fresh. Their people is too decent. Their street is too clean. Their goverment is too efficient. Damn you.. I cant stand all this. I need filth in my lungs.. I need the polluted air that my country has to offer. All this fresh air is hurting my nose. Hence the flu.. *sneeze.

Being in Singapo*re is like travelling to the future. Everything is so ...hmmm... modern.. No jackass snatch thief. No LRT. No rubbish litters. No corruptions. While i am in Singapo*re my combat readiness mode is actually set to a friendly " Green 3 ".

Nevertheless after the gang freshen up we all went to Marche for our lunch.. Woo hoo. Marche Singap*re is great. Much much better than our lousy overly-charged Malaysi*n version. I ordered the lobster spaghetti... Woo hoo... damn fucking nice... Hui got some pancake thingy.. Meanwhile Gwen ordered some fresh vegetables and some fried shrimps. Jane on the other hand was not being her usual self. She just ordered a salad for her lunch. Perhaps she was anxious as her bf was coming over for lunch and she wanna teman him makan instead.

After we makan, we all walked around the surrounding shopping malls and waited for the girls to shop. Waited... and waited... and waited.. * cricket sound.. and waited.. and waited.. hahahaaha.. Seriously, i think i may need to train my stamina in shopping. I can be energetic even after 2 hours non stop badminton session, yet a 30 minute waiting for girls to shop is much too much for me to bear.

We stop by to drink and somehow our conversation lead us to go rollerblading that night. Oh the horror. ROLLERBLADING?? * siren sound.

"All personnel go to battle station. Condition red two, i repeat condition red two. This is not a drill "

My memories of rollerblading has never been a fun experience. Being taller, the gravity does nasty things things to your body. When i was teenager i tried to learn rollerblading as it was kinda like a cool thing to do back then. Hui and the rest of the gang caught the skills relatively fast. As i did not want to look like a loser, i secretly borrowed a pair or rollerblade and started to train on my own. Mana tahu, on the first day of training i fell down real bad, and twisted my ankle so badly that one of the muscle tendon connected to the vein got busted. It took me 1 month to recover from the accident. Yet till now, because the muscle tendon has broke before i can actually pysically push my "vein" out. hehehehe... (*normal ppl vein cant do that.. and yes i am a freak).

Anyway rollerblading in Singapo*e sucks big time. There were tons of peopl showing off. Including Hui, Jane and her bf. hahaha. While they were busy showing off, i was still trying to balance myself like a duck on rollerblade under some involuntarily muscle spasm. Damn pai seh. Who the fuck invented roller blade anyway. I bet its some short guy that wants to seek revenge on the taller guys for getting all the chics.Grrr...I fell like 20 fucking times. Tumble down hills, Bang trees, Scrap tarmac. You named it. I've tried it. This is totally bad on my hard ass reputation. WHy nobody suggested kickboxing huh? Kickboxing is fun what?? hahahahhaa..... The only consolation i got from all of this torture was perhaps i didnt manage to kill myself ... By the end of it all i was sweating like i pig. The rest of the gang was not even sweating. Of course lar, you try falling down 20 times on roller blade and we see who sweat more. Grrrrrrrr....

After the death defying act , we all headed home and i saw Kim and her bf. I find both of them rather friendly. We chat a while before I excuse myself and took a shower and waited for the rest. We rested for a a good 1 hour before we go out again for supper. Dont really know why... but my appetite seems really good at Singapore. Ate damn a lot of dim sum. The Malaysi*n was actually gorging themselves with food like world war 3 has just begun, while the Singapo*ean was busy chatting about computer games. What with them? Singapo*ean dont like to eat is it ? I am sure they think of us as savages..

I woke up the next day after Hui asked me to pack up. Gwen cooked lunch for us. Not bad. Can pass la... hahahahaha.. I would not say better than the scouts camping food, but good enough also la.. heheheh.. Ok Gwen dont merajuk k.. next time still have to cook somemore you know...We reach back around 11 and guess what ? My flu cleared up.. Ahhh..... Nothing like the smells of burning exhaust fumes, polluted rivers, dirty streets back home. woo hooo... Overall the entire trip was a blast. Had a really good time and woudl definitely go back soon.

03 May 2006 Wed
Been really busy lately. Couple of things that i meant to blog about. My sister's convo, Sharon's birthday, Singapore trip, my website and the list goes on and on. Cant remember much so i will simply blog about it. First up Sharon's party. It was at Cynna. As usual we were late. My sister decided to tag along which mean I wont be able to drink myself to death or flirt with any chic for that matter. Sam brought along some guy, Kourni and this tall chic, Christine. Luckily Tham and Eve was there. At least they can teman my sis a bit. Cynna is nothing special. I still prefer Poppy. The music there is much better. Well, at least we got a VIP room. The highlight of the day was definitely goes to Charng Bin gf. She came to party with flaunting her SUPER CLEAVAGE. Oh, by the way her name is Tila similar to Tila Tequila.. wooo hoo.. Honk honk.. Lookwise too. Anyway, drank quite a bit and then slept around 4 am.

The next day i woke up waaaaaay to early for my sister convo. Her friend fetch us to the hotel. I let her chat with her friends meanwhile i slept at the hotel lobby completely oblivious to my surrounding. My family came much later. We all left my sis and went to KLCC to eat at a Thai restaurant. Fucking expensive, but at least the food is good. hahahhaah .. After the heavy meal we all walked back to the hotel and proceeded to take pictures with my sis. Sam, as usual was late. I was being grumpy cause i was seriously tired at that time. Whenit all ended we headed back home and i drove out to play badminton. Hahhaha .. Yes, i know i was dead tired.. but hate to break a promise and Sam lack good players... ahem ahem...

Christine came along and she woop Sam's ass. Hahaha... Tee lee and the rest was not her match either. I of course on the other hand ... uhmm DID NOT..... play with her... hahahahha dont want to jinx her winning streak.. haha.... Partner Wai kien and whack all of them.. hands down.. mou tak lei.. Wet wet water.

Well now it the time to tell you about my website. I just finish my auto form.. Took me 8 pages man. Geez madness. I wanted to copy and paste the code here but is freaking loooooooog. Bugger someone better appreciate what i have done. Now if anyone complain somemore i will seriously parang them.. muahahahhahahaa....

Dear Bo$$

   In thi$ life, we all need $ome thing mo$t de$perately. I think you $hould be under$tanding of the need$ of u$ worker$ who have given $o much $upport including $weat and $ervice to your company. I am $ure you will gue$$ what I mean and re$pond $oon.

Your$ $incerely,
Chia

The next day, the employee received this letter of reply :

Chia,

   I kNOw you have been working very hard. NOwadays, NOthing much has changed. You must have NOticed that our company is NOt doing NOticeably well as yet .
  NOw the newspaper are saying the world`s leading ecoNOmists are NOt sure if the United States may go into aNOther recession. After the NOvember presidential elections things may turn bad. I have NOthing more to add NOw. You kNOw what I mean.

Yours truly,
Manager 

04 April 2006 Tue
Bugger. Its been six days... Where are my dedications to my website.. There has only been 174 visits so far..Only 30 visit per day.. Argghhhh. I thought once i did the website it will all come together. Thought i would have a billion love dedication by now.. But do things ever work in my favour....noooooo... hahahaha.....So far only 2 people have send me their dedication. I will upload them within the next 48 hour. My sis just gave me a new idea yesterday. She said i should include SMS to notify the recepient of the dedication. Hmm how come i didnt think of that,... Hahahah... What a great idea... Instant notification.. My sis is sheer genius... Now i have to buy a new sim card to send all the SMS.. woo hoo ...

Oh well for anyone thats nice enough to link us up in their blog/website.. Do add this picture and link it back to our website k. Oh i am going to Singapore on the 14th this month to set up my PayPal account. Who else wanna join us. Hui and Boon Soon is going also..

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